Our 2nd �Family Day�
My son�s 2nd adoption anniversary is this month. It�s so weird that he has only been my �legal� son for 2 years. It�s almost easy to forget how uncertain things were while I was fostering him and how I lived in fear that something would happen and CPS would take him from me. Now, he�s almost 4 and he has such a personality. He�s also starting to understand �adoption� a little more. I know there�s so much controversy on celebrating Adoption Days. I don�t really look at is as �celebrating,� I look at it more like �remembering�... talking about how we became a family & reflecting on it. I think as my son gets older that he will have more say in how and what we do to �commemorate� our adoption. I actually don�t call it �adoption day� or �gotcha day.� I don�t really like those phrases. I refer to it as our �Family Day.� Now that baby boy has arrived, I�m planning to integrate both of their stories in our �family day� tradition. We have a unique situation where one Child is a...